Dating Quotes
Never approach a woman from behind. Always come in from the front, but at a slightly angle so it's not too direct and confrontational. You should speak to her over your shoulder, so it looks like you might walk away at any minute. [2005] - Neil Strauss
An IOI is an indicator of interest. If she asks you what your name is, that's an IOI. If she asks you if you're single, that's an IOI. If you take her hands and squeeze them, and she squeezes back, that's an IOI. [2005] - Neil Strauss
The secrete to meeting women is simply knowing what to say, and when and how to say it. [2005] - Neil Strauss
Women want sex as much as-if not more than-men; they just don't want to be pressured, lied to, or made to feel like a slut. [2005] - Neil Strauss
Women aren't persuaded as easily by direct images and talk. They respond better to metaphor and suggestion. [2005] - Neil Strauss
One of the most important things to do with an attractive woman was to demonstrate value. In other words, what makes me any different from the last twenty guys who approached her? Women are sick of generic guys asking the same generic questions: "So where are you from?...What do you do for work?" [2005] - Neil Strauss
It takes roughly seven hours for a woman to be comfortably led from meet to sex. These seven hours can take place all in one night, or over several days: approaching and talking for an hour; speaking on the phone for an our; meeting for drinks for two hours; talking on the phone for another hour; and then on the next meeting, hanging out for two more hours before going to bed together. [2005] - Neil Strauss
Women, by and large, are much more perceptive than men. Anyone talking to a woman while simultaneously worrying about what she thinks of him is going to fail. Anyone caught thinking about getting into a woman's pants before she starts thinking about what's in his pants is going to fail. [2005] - Neil Strauss
If you can make a girl envy you, you can make a girl sleep with you. [2005] - Neil Strauss
Girls don't respect guys who buy them drinks. Never buy meals, drinks, or gifts for a girl you haven't slept with. [2005] - Neil Strauss
Direction to take a girl: First, open. Then demonstrate higher value. Next, build rapport and an emotional connection. And, finally, create a physical connection. [2005] - Neil Strauss
When women stand near a man but facing away from him, especially when there's no reason for them to be hanging out in that particular spot, it means they're interested; they want to be opened. [2005] - Neil Strauss
Women are constantly judging a man's value in order to determine if it can help them with their life objectives of survival and replication. Women tend to respond to status and social proof. [2005] - Neil Strauss
Some women like to make extremely sexual comments after meeting a man. It is a shit test. If the guy becomes uncomfortable, he fails; however, if he takes the bait and gets excited or says something sexual in response, he also fails. The solution: Just look her in the eye, nod approvingly, and, with a slight smile creeping across your face, say, "Respect," in a smart-ass tone. [2005] - Neil Strauss
If you lower a woman's self-esteem, she will seek validation from you. If you make a woman jealous, she will become more attracted to you. [2005] - Neil Strauss
Women don't respect guys who pay for them but at the same time are turned off by guys who are cheap. [2005] - Neil Strauss
Sometimes, simply through the act of having sex with a man, especially if that man is a little more emotionally distant than she would like him to be, a woman can develop feelings. She can start wanting more. [2005] - Neil Strauss
The secret to making someone think they're in love with you is to occupy their thoughts. [2005] - Neil Strauss
Sex improves with age. Many older adults report that sex is as good as or even better than it was when they were 40. The frequency of climax for women increases with each decade into their 80s. Even though men have less forceful ejaculations, and need more time for a repeat erection, they still enjoy orgasm. Age also provides more free time, few children, and no concerns about pregnancy. However mature adults still have to worry about sexually transmitted diseases. Specialists in sex and aging say 70% of people over 60 who have regular partners have sex at least once a month. [2005] - Sharon Romm
Contrary to popular belief, today's older men are more likely to seek a permanent liaison, while women, after losing a relationship. are more inclined to declare, and then preserve, their independent status. [2005] - Sharon Romm